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Overcoming Hate: A Spiritual Journey
Ife used to be so negative in her 20s and late 30s—filled with hate that she thought she couldn’t escape. Then she realized: holding onto that anger harms me more than anyone else. Now, she focuses on spiritual practices and remember to “wear the world like a loose garment” — what others do isn’t my… →
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Tapping for Emotional Healing
Ever feel overwhelmed and just wish you had a quick trick to calm down? Drop a 🔥 if you’ve tried tapping or want to learn how it can instantly reset your mood.I started exploring tapping, a practice with the power to soothe emotions in seconds—no fancy tools, just pressure points on your body. It’s used… →
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Unconscious Fears in the Black Community
Are we really over the fear of the police? 🖤 Drop a 🔥 if you’ve felt this too. For generations, Black folks have inherited a deep-rooted fear of authority—passed down through our ancestors’ wounds. Scientists now prove these fears live in our bodies, passed through the womb, shaping how we instinctively react to power.It’s more… →
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Redefining Fear
Is fear more about the story we tell ourselves — or the reality? Drop a 🔥 if you’ve ever let your mind run wild with groundless fears. Ife used to think fear was like an emergency — real danger calling for a police or ambulance. But then she realized, most of what she fears isn’t… →
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Overcoming Fear with Mantras
Ever get momentarily paralyzed by fear — even when you know you’re prepared? 🧗♀️Drop a 💪 if you’ve ever faced a moment where fear took over despite practice! I was training for an obstacle course race, climbing over a fence that was about 10 feet high. I had a video of it — me with… →
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The Meaning Behind the Compliment?
Ever wonder if compliments are really about you, or about something else entirely? Drop a 💭 if you’ve ever caught yourself overthinking tiny comments from others. Sometimes, what feels like a slight might just be someone else’s insecurities or their own shortcomings—they’re not necessarily about us. It takes real courage to put ourselves out there,… →
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Does Height Determine Chemistry?
Ever felt like the tall guy or girl is out of reach — literally? Drop a 🔥 if you’ve ever doubted someone tall being interested in you. The truth? Height doesn’t determine chemistry or confidence. It’s all about how you carry yourself. Maybe it’s time to stop ruling yourself out before someone even gets to… →
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Small Steps to Big Goals
Sometimes we trivialize our small wins — but those tiny steps are the real game changers. Have you ever dismissed progress that felt “small”? Drop a 🔥 if you’ve ever underestimated your own achievements. Never overlook the small wins — they’re the foundation for bigger wins. What’s a small achievement you’re proud of today? #SmallWins… →
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Confidence Shifts the Vibe
Ever notice how confidence really shifts the vibe? Drop a 🔥 if you’ve felt this transformation yourself—growing into your best self really softens the noise around you. It’s crazy how much confidence can change how others perceive you—and how you see yourself. Sometimes, it’s just about letting your personality shine more freely. What’s one way… →
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Size Does Not Matter…Or Does It?!
In this episode of ‘Tricks My Dog Taught Me’, I talk with my cousin Brittany Eubanks about why size does not matter, or does it? I’m Five – Eleven, and Brittany is four eleven, so we both have experiences with height, identity, and the societal perceptions that come with it. Check out my podcast on… →